Better Way of Matching Horoscopes for Matrimony

BETTER WAY OF MATCHING HOROSCOPES FOR MATRIMONY

BETTER WAY OF MATCHING HOROSCOPES FOR MATRIMONY

by  Talagnayar V. Jayakumar Sastri, 

Matching of Birth Charts plays a vital role in the pursuit of marriage. This is the prime stage to deciding the compatibility between a girl and a boy for Marriage Settlement by parents. A mere comparison of Birth Charts of alliances will bring only dis-satisfaction and create non-faith among the parents with the astrologer, as they are in need of fulfillment of Wealth, Welfare, and Longevity of marrying couples throughout post-marital status and family way of life for marrying couples. In order to fulfill this, when making matching of horoscopes/Birth Charts for matrimonial alliances, there should be valuable methodology in common with broad Concepts to make effective good match-making by astrologers.

General: Normally, all astrologers will follow the principles of match-making like Kuta-agreement, Dosha-values, Dasa-Sandhis, etc. Apart from these, an eminent astrologer should also analyze the horoscopes in specific detail about the aspects of I)Wealth, II)Welfare and III)Longevity of the marrying couples and their progeny. These most important Concepts are needed to be effectively-analyzed to make the married-life, happy with full satisfaction.


I. Wealth:

"Yajur Veda Manthram proclaims that JUPITER is the prime planet for Wealth"

“Bruhaspathe Athi Adharyo Aruhath Dwimad Dwipaadi Kratumath Janeshu:


yaddheetha yatsavasrcha(f) praja thadhasmasur dravinam dehi chitram”




“Shree sooktham” emphasizes that prayer to Goddess Lakshmi would take away 


Daridhra(non-availability of materials) and give Wealth:

“Kshupipasamalam jestam alakshmeer nasayamham; Abhoothim asamruddhim-chasarvan-nirnu dhame Gruhath”.

In Vedic astrology, JUPITER is the most auspicious planet, which gives strength to the native to possess or earn wealth. In fact, Jupiter is the Karaka for Dhana, Putra, and Kama(Abilasha) fulfillments. Planet VENUS is Kaletra-karaka and it speaks about the Boga-bogies(comforts) within four walls inside the home. If these two planets are well disposed and the Jeevana-Sthana(Tenth house/Bhava) is found good the family will get sufficient finance for living normally.


Therefore, an astrologer should concentrate on the basic living conditions of the life partners on the above lines, in order to determine ownership of shelter, financial status, and children. The life partners should have good yoga bhavas in their natal charts, and their lords are well disposed of, otherwise, they will have an adverse influence, and there will be differences of opinion among them, which will make the future of the family result in jeopardy or cause concern due to delay in decision making among them.

II. Welfare:

Aruna Prasnam(Surya Namaskaram) says that prayer to SUN God brings forth welfare and healthy life. 


“Punarmamaith Indriyam, Punar-Brahamana maithuma, Punar-Dravina maithuma ” 

which denotes that SUN God provides strength to Indriyas in their body to properly function for the Arogya of a person. That means, the planets SUN and MOON, the Karaka for ‘Atma’ and ‘Mana’ should be well disposed of and should be without affliction in the horoscopes. As planet SUN is AtmaKaraka, it speaks about the soul in the human body. Besides, astrologers should also analyze whether married life-partners will have healthy children without any physical deficiency by birth and their future prospects. It is therefore essential to assess the strength of the SUN and MOON in the horoscopes and understand the probable Welfare, Healthy living, Physical and Mental well-being, and adjustability of life partners.

III. Longevity:

Yajur Veda describes….

 “Shreevarchasya-mayushya-marogyamaveedhas, sobhamanam maheyathe! 

Dhaanyam, Dhanam, Bahu-putra labham, Sadha-samvathsaram Dheergamayuhu!!”

Prayer to any God/Goddess will confer the worshipper(devotee), Wealth, Poorna-Ayus(for one hundred years-span), Energy for good health, Food-grains, Animals, and Children and eradicate the evils of Debt, Ill-health, Poverty, Hungry, untimely Death, Fear, Worries and un-wanted Thoughts.

It is planet SATURN, which is Karaka for Ayus or longevity of life-span. If Saturn is well disposed of in the horoscopes of life-partners and the Ayur-bhava is without malefic influence, they will definitely have a lasting married life. For this, the astrologer should calculate the Dasa-Bhukthis after marriage and satisfy the span of the longevity of males and females. On this matter, there should be no compromising. 

To know about begetting children, the 5th and 9th Bhavas from Janma Lagnam in RAASI Charts of both Male and Female horoscopes as well as the Sapthamsa(Divisional Chart) of the respective natives should be examined thoroughly. Besides, the strength of JUPITER should be estimated in the horoscopes.

There is a possibility of a loss of children at early ages during post-Marriage, due to malefic planets influencing adversely female horoscopes causing short-life of children. There may be obstacles blocking at conceiving stage itself causing issues after marriage. It is therefore inevitable and suggests remedial measures to overcome these types of specific problems. Remedial measures may be required in two stages: one for Dosha-removal; to take away evil-influences for the 5th and 9th Bhavas from Janma Lagnam and the next for getting issues. In some cases, there may be pre-mature birth of children and this may cause some physical deficiency in them. In some other cases, the longevity of the children after birth is shortened because of malefic influences of Nodes in some houses for which remedial measures are very much necessary as prescribed in Classical Granthas, SHANTHI RATHNAKARA or SHANTHI KUSUMAKARA(Four Books – Poorva Bhaga and Uththara Bhaga).

Conclusion:


Afore said three broad Concepts, Wealth, Welfare, and Longevity, if properly valued and their influence visualized with the utmost care, it is certain to produce stable married life with happiness. While matching horoscopes, astrologers should also analyze the other Divisional Charts to assess, if the RAASI and NAVAMSA Charts are indicating insufficient or adverse effects about the properties stated above. Let’s hope for a better future for one and all, and astrologers should value the horoscopes for the betterment and prosperity of married life-partners.






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